Hwasin: Controller of the Heart
[Power of one-liner: Special Episode]
Hooray, Do Kyung Hwan.
Jang Yoon Jeong is somebody.
Jang Yoon Jeong is so good.
[I am getting married. Jang Yoon Jeong]
I would like to date young guys.
- You talk high and mighty. - Mind your own business.
[Bad girl who dominates Gu Ra. Lee Hyo Ri]
- My husband's hobby is me. - You talk senselessly.
My face and my bodyline. Who else looks like I do?
[I am the best. Park Ji Yoon]
24 hours day I cleaned their shit and fed them.
Please, please stop!
[Being a rocker was the easiest. Yoon Do Hyun]
I couldn't wash my face nor wash my hair.
No makeup and fat with big boobs.
From both sides, 'Squeak, squeak.'
[And]
[With the blessings and attention from many people]
[Do Kyung Hwan and Jang Yoon Jeong had their wedding]
We will live happily.
They became even more unified.
He really is my husband. I feel stable.
'He is my husband,' I start to think this way.
I feel better.
I feel much more grounded.
Rather than turning on a heater to melt the snow in the middle of winter
it's better to wait for spring.
I think that's why I could hope for spring.
I would've turned on the heat if I was by myself but someone was with me.
Comes up with wise sayings like a machine.
We start The Power of One-liner: Special
Hwasin
- It's time for the power of one-liners. - Yes, the power of one-liners.
The Power of One-liners: Summer Special
Shall we... start with Jang Yoon Jeong?
The one-liner Jang Yoon Jeong discovered.
Withstand it, laugh and forget.
I resonated with it just like that.
Withstand it. Laugh. Forget.
This may sound serious because of my current situation but
since I debuted, I wrote this saying in my vehicle.
Really? You didn't come up with this recently?
Even nowadays I feel like it was a good idea that I lived by this saying.
Because it's part of your habit and lifestyle to work through life's challenges.
It gave me the strength over the last ten years.
She wrote this down in her car over ten years ago.
What happened in your life that allowed you to discover this saying?
Because it's my job to perform in front of people
I have to be patience, right? A lot of things happen that require patience.
It's more important what you do after you practice patience.
Do you repress it or does it become an illness.
Or do you detonate it at a wrong place.
I think it's more important what you do with it afterward.
There was one time I almost lost control because I was so angry.
'Who is that girl?' It wasn't like that.
It happened when I got famous.
It was when I was known for my name rather than my song 'Oh My!'
I went to perform at another city.
A sports day was being held at a public stadium.
I was going there to perform for the occasion.
Often events like that are held at places that are inadequate.
There were no bodyguards around me.
It was an uncontrollable situation.
I stood behind the stage and everybody could see me.
Not like I am hiding behind the stage and go, 'It's me, Yoon Jeong.'
I was standing where everybody could see me.
Someone deliberately said something directed at me
'Who is that?' he said.
So, I looked at him.
Upon eye contact, 'Who is that? What does she do?' He spoke in a loud tone.
There are people like that.
A person beside him said, 'It's Jang Yoon Jeong, Jang Yoon Jeong.'
'Jang Yoon Jeong? I don't recognize her,' he said.
'I see... Hi...' I replied.
'Are you a singer?' he asked me.
The people beside him said, 'Of course she is a singer.'
And he went somewhere for a moment.
He brought an extremely crumpled paper that was probably for the bathroom.
It was extremely crumpled paper.
He handed me a tiny paper.
And he asked me if I have a pen.
No celebrity carries a pen to write autographs, right?
When I told him I don't have one, he found a highlighter somewhere.
'Write an autograph,' he told me.
I was feeling more and more angry and it would only
be my loss if I got angry at him amidst many people.
I stayed still and he waved the paper in front of my face.
My manger and I --
'Write your autograph, write your autograph here.'
I am sorry.
- I don't feel good. - You don't feel good.
When my manager and my dance team stopped him, he
was like, 'What? You think you're better than me?'
I thought he might get worse, so I wrote an autograph for him.
I wrote it and handed the paper and the highlighter to him.
As if to show it to me, he crumpled it and throw it away.
He was very ill-mannered.
I didn't even have time to calm down.
'It's Jang Yoon Jeong,' so I went onto the stage feeling like that.
As if nothing happened, like an insane person, I smiled and sang a song.
When it was done, I didn't know how to let it go.
It remained with me, you know, because I am a human.
We decided amongst ourselves, 'He must've been drunk.'
'I think he did that because he was too drunk,' I concluded and let that go.
Things like that kept happening everyday.
Fortunately, I don't have a good memory.
I withstand it. I like to laugh and after I laugh about it. I tend to forget.
I wrote that down right beside where I sit in my vehicle.
I read that everyday.
But it's easier said than done and
I think I can do withstand it and laugh about it, if nothing else, even if I fake it.
But it's not easy to forget about after going through something like that.
I think it's only your loss... to hold onto something like that.
They aren't people who have an influence over my life.
True.
I think bad vibrations need to leave me as soon as possible.
I let it go quickly.
When you... watch Kung Fu Panda the movie, Kung Fu Panda 2 especially.
The second one, not the first?
I didn't watch the second one. I watched the first one.
There is a scene where the panda is barely standing up on a small piece of wood.
They shoot a cannon at him.
It's so clear the panda will be shot and die.
Because the cannon ball is the size of a soccer ball.
The panda says, 'Peace of mind,' and then...
He receives the cannon ball by rolling it.
And then, he re-directs it toward the shooter.
The cannon ball destroyed the ship.
Peace of mind
I think it was Tai Chi.
He didn't block it nor did he hit it.
He received, worked with it and redirected it to somewhere else.
When I looked at something like that, I feel deeply touched.
Watching Kung Fu Panda 2.
- It makes sense. - From watching something like that.
By finding the peace of mind
I came to think that I should handle the bad stuff, roll it and redirect it.
Kung Fu Yoon Jeong
I don't know if I should mention this.
The things that are happening in your life aren't rare events like that.
It's a part of a reality now.
Do you still recite this saying?
Of course.
I even think, 'This is why I've been trained to handle things like that.'
It's a thought that helps me a lot even now.
Withstand it! Laugh! Forget! Jang Yoon Jeong
Might be hard to laugh about it.
As much as something bad is happening
I have something amazing such as my wedding awaiting me.
I am grateful if only for that.
I told the production staff another one-liner.
I always thing that a strong person doesn't endure hardship.
Those who endure hardship are strong.
I am not winning the battle. I am enduring it.
She's like a machine of wise sayings.
He feels moved.
Gu Ra feels moved quite often today.
I've went through some complicated stuff myself but...
I think this is really important.
We perform in front of people, right?
If I have just one fan, then I am someone who has an influence over that one person.
If I cry in front of that person and say what I like and what I dislike
I think I am changing that person's perspective and opinion.
But I don't think I should do that.
I should just sing because I am a singer.
Everyone has their own concerns.
I don't think I should tell them that I feel stressed and tired.
When they see me, they should think of Oh My! and Jjan Jja Ra.
I don't want them to think of anything else, but
it's true that it's not as the way I like it to be.
I put even put more effort when I sing because of that.
As I've told you already, there are people who
cry when they see me because they care about me.
There are people who say silently, 'Cheer up!'
Anyone say? 'Congratulations on marrying Do Kyung Hwan!'
A grandpa shouted as I returning home after a performance.
'Hooray, Do Kyung Hwan!'
'Hooray, Do Kyung Hwan!' he shouted.
'This is how they show their support,' I thought.
- You feel stronger because people like him. - Yes.
Do you sleep well, Yoon Jeong?
- I sleep like a baby. - Oh, that's good.
She's born with that.
It shows that she has an amazingly strong DNA for resilience.
- I sleep when I want to. - Oh, really?
And wherever.
That's one of Five Blessings.
She's blessed.
By the way, how about your appetite?
I have a good appetite, too.
This is how well I sleep.
When I go to U.S., it takes about 13 hours of flying, right?
Yes.
When I want to sleep, I sleep. And I eat when they feed me and sleep when I --
I am in America after sleeping twice and eating twice.
That's how well I sleep, wherever I am.
You don't get indigestion from sleeping right away?
You are born with it. Seriously.
I am curious how Hee Sun handles it.
I am just like you. I sleep when I lie down.
I do.
My nickname is Cinderella, but it's about Princess Complex.
It's because I don't worry about something past 12 a.m.
I tend to forget about it after taking a drink.
When I drink, some people act out in a bad way, but I've never done that.
Actually, there are times when I forget the reason why I had to drink.
I do that too. I do that too.
I think we have great personalities for celebrities.
What's your most recent worry?
I can drink less than I used to.
I noticed that she runs away in the middle of a staff dinner.
She doesn't even remember that.
I tend to be the one who takes the group out to drink. Usually, I am the one who leads it.
I found myself leaving early.
I used to hate people who do that.
She used to be like a world class marathoner.
But now she's only like a pacemaker.
She's now a pacemaker when it comes to drinking?
Since we're talking about it.
Have you been through something that was so hard to endure?
In my case... I see that every one of you has gone through so much.
I am learning a lot from everyone today.
I think you have a strong mind.
Didn't you also...
go through much heartache because of your business venture?
- Venture? - What was the business venture?!
Should call it pet dog business?
- He did that? - I think he forgot about it.
Rather than calling it a business.
I once tried to change my career.
Our band broke up in the year 2000.
YB was disbanded.
We talked about changing a member due to a disagreement.
So I got into the pet dog business...
Dog breeding?
So, I took care of ten dogs by myself.
By yourself?
24 hours a day cleaning their shit and feeding them.
- You had big dogs? - Yes.
- Big ones? - Yes.
- At a farm? - Yes.
You should've talked to me first.
I am Mr. Animal Farm, you know?
- How long did you do that? - For about three months.
When stopped promoting the new song, strangely, that's when it went up in the charts.
It became more popular.
After they broke up.
Your band got back together because of that, right?
The president of my agency wanted us to continue making music.
I feel pretty sensitive when it comes to changing a member.
I do not change members.
I was inflexible in thinking that we should remain together until we are old.
That's why you added Huh Jun the guitarist.
And the title of our album at the time was
Singing Korean Rock Once Again.
There is a song titled After I Send You Away.
Didn't receive any recognition when we were promoting it.
- You were breeding puppies. - I was breeding puppies.
And that's when the song started to become popular.
I turned on the TV. I looked at the TV as I was carrying dog food.
Inkigayo the music ranking TV program was on and I saw our song was --
Was on the chart.
It was in 26th place under YB Band.
It was a strange feeling.
The president of my agency came to visit me a few days later.
'Why don't you keep making music by getting a new member,' he said.
We found another member.
When that happened did you say yes right away.
Or did you say, 'I will think it over for a few days?'
The thing was...
You can't go anywhere.
24 hours a day, you have to
clean up with shit and feed them and clean up with shit and feed them.
I have to take them to a veterinarian everyday.
Because it's a small place, they fight.
I have to keep my eye on them.
You were so busy.
They go crazy if I tie them to poles.
- They keep barking. - They keep barking if I do that.
They fight if I let them free.
One day, a Golden Retriever ran away.
There was a rice paddy that's been planted.
It went in there and dug them all out.
- I had to pay about 2 million wons for that. - Oh my...
What if I didn't ask him about that?
He was holding a deep resentment.
No, I am just saying.
Have you ever cried when you found yourself cleaning up dog shit?
Oh, he did cry because of that.
- It could happen. - He did cry.
- What am I doing here like this. - No, I never cried but
They barked until dawn.
You couldn't sleep either?
Seriously, I couldn't sleep.
There was an ostrich farm beside my farm.
Ostriches made this sound with their wings.
They are quite loud.
- And the dog bark. - They move as a group.
When they do, you can here the ground shake.
Then, dogs bark at them.
Every dog barks when just one does, right?
I felt so sleepy after laboring all day.
I went out and yelled at them.
- You talked to them? - I felt so pathetic.
There is nothing else you can do.
'What are guys doing?'
There is a fake club that doesn't hurt when you get hit with it.
Please, please, please!
I felt so angry.
And you started it because you love puppies so much.
'I am pathetic. What am I doing here?'
'Should I go back to making music?'
Must have been a very difficult decision.
So, what happened to it?
It was a failure. I just got back to making music.
What happened to the dogs?
I couldn't sell them because I was so fond of them. And they were very expensive too.
Every one of them were priced at least several million wons.
There was one dog that was priced at tens of millions of wons.
- Of course. - One that has a pedigree.
A dog with the best pedigree.
Ten of them means they cost close to a hundred of million wons.
No, only one of them. The rest of them weren't as...
He had cheaper ones.
There were several types of breeds.
Airedale Terrier, Gold Retriever, Jindo.
I didn't want to sell them.
I gave them all to a friend of mine who wanted to raise dogs so bad.
- I gave them away for free. - For free?
I gave them away because he said he will take a good care of them.
They've grown up well and they are making a lot of puppies. So...
Ji Yoon, have you ever had a time when you endured a difficult situation very well?
I went through a difficult situation this one time.
For some reason, I never lose my appetite.
I realized what it means to feel distressed.
When I felt distressed, I completely lost my appetite.
I was feeling down but when I looked at myself in the mirror.
When I looked at my slim body, I smiled for some reason.
Every cloud has a silver lining.
I realized that there are precious moments that uplift me even when I feel distressed.
My good friend Eum Ji Won calls me 'Miss Park Ji.'
'Miss Park Ji, all you do is become less beautiful when you get upset.'
'Haven't you heard about inner-beauty?' she said.
When I thought about it, no matter how upset I
become, it has no influence over other people.
All it does is create illness and make me look less beautiful.
'I would rather at least keep my beauty in tact,' that's how I controlled my mind.
On the day of her wedding, she needs to be the most beautiful bride in the world, right?
I would like to remember her inner-beauty and just smile.
Yoon Jeong, do you have any worries about the day of your wedding?
No, no, there isn't.
Who will sing at your wedding?
We've decided on someone, but it's too early to say.
This episode will air after a while.
- It's hard to say -- - Because you don't know how it may play out.
There is a difference in what I want and people who want to do it for me.
If you say who that is here, then, that person will give up on their own.
Can you talk about who you want to sing for you?
A lot of people want to sing for your wedding, right?
Yes, that's the hard part.
- Did Wink wanted to sing for you? - Who?
I think that's it.
You mean the twin?
I am sure they said they wanted to do it for many years now.
The president of my agency wants
trot singers to sing for a trot singer's wedding.
I think that would be a great idea.
Wink and Choi Young Chul belong to your agency as well?
Choi Young Chul and Park Hyun Bin.
- They want to sing for you? - Sure they will if I ask them.
They are ready like this.
I am curious how trot singers will sing a wedding song.
- I don't think I've seen that. - It's obvious.
I can just tell how Wink and Park Hyun Bin will sing it.
For example, for example.
I am sure she's seen it so many times.
Park Hyun Bin will sing Bling Bling.
'Her face is a v-line. Her body is a s-line.'
'Jang Yoon Jeong is so good,' like this.
I am sure Wink will go, 'Oh yes, Jang Yoon Jeong has the looks, 'like this.
It's so obvious.
When they come close to me, I shouldn't just stand still. I need to dance with them.
I don't want that.
I need to do this when he sings.
You can do that at the after party but you want your wedding to be --
Yoon Jeong, do you want someone to sing 'You Raise Me Up?'
Do you want tears? I think that's what she wants.
Did you want this?
Then, we will do that for you.
I will never cry at the wedding. Never. I won't make the atmosphere that way.
Do Kyung Hwan sang If I Were by Ahn Chi Hwan
anyone just for you.
Ji Yoon, did you cry?
I cried at a different timing than most women.
Most women cry when the groom sings for them.
But I made my husband practice the wedding song.
When he told me he wanted to sing and play a piano, I tole him, 'Let's see.'
'This part isn't good. You should put more emotion into it and slow it down.'
Oh, that's scary.
Because I saw him practice everyday, all I was worried was whether he did it well or not.
This is what my friends and family saw when I husband sang.
You are supposed to cry when your man sings for you but I was like
'Good job. You didn't make any mistakes,' I gestured at him.
But when I was reading what I wrote for the wedding...
Why would you cry over something you wrote?
I cried a little because I felt touched by something I wrote.
Seriously?
So senseless.
- Can you bring us your wedding video? - The wedding video?
I was so busy with my new business. I don't think I videotaped the wedding.
I don't remember where the wedding photos are or if we videotaped the wedding.
My husband continues to feel disappointed about it.
Understandable.
He wanted a video record of the ceremony.
He wanted to watch how it was.
'Why talk about the past? The most important thing is that we love each other,' I tell him.
One-liner by Park Ji Yoon.
I don't want to go back to how I was before I became a middle aged.
Is that her one-liner? Isn't it a line from her diary?
- I don't like the photo so much. - I see a difference.
I took that photo after I lost 15 kg from 40 kg I gained after I became pregnant.
I don't mind how you look as a middle aged lady.
You don't want to go back to how you were before you became middle aged.
That's because I upgraded so many things after I became middle aged.
My face, bodyline, personality and knowledge.
What do you mean your face and bodyline upgraded?
- I can understand if you listed your personality. - No, no.
Because I didn't have a great looking face or a great looking body but
I didn't manage them well because I didn't know I needed to manage them.
I was a little lazy but
when my body became this big after I got pregnant and gave birth.
So big. You gained 30 kg.
I gained 30 kg.
I promised to get back on air in a month without losing all that extra weight.
When I got back on air, I couldn't get into a size 77.
I was co-hosting with Shin Dong Yup.
I was so shocked.
I wore a jacket because the zipper couldn't close.
My breasts were so big like this.
Having gone through that, I started to exercise and do massage treatments.
Your skin lose elasticity when you gain and lose weight, right?
I started to apply eye cream everyday.
I made sure to put on sun block and visited a dermatologist once a month.
I start to take care of myself.
Ji Yoon, when you said that you don't want to go back to how you were before you became middle aged
It's made possible because your husband sacrificed.
You get to all that because your husband supports you.
I gave birth to his child for him.
Even though I gained 30 kg, I went through everything to lose all of that.
For years I felt the pain of not eating when my husband was eating his dinner.
I lost weight, worked and made money too.
Where do you find someone like me?
But you don't gain 30 kg just because you are pregnant. Right?
Most women don't.
I was already past 50 kg when I was in grade five.
She gained a lot of weight when she was young.
I went on a diet when I was in grade seven.
I thought of this when I became pregnant.
I never had morning sickness unless I needed to eat.
I never had morning sickness.
'This is my time. This will be the last time in my
life that I am justified to eat as much as I want.'
Because I need to watch my weight to be on TV.
'It's all the same whether I need to weigh 10, 20 or 30 kg.
So, let's eat to my heart's content.
- So, I ate everything I wanted to. - You gained 30 kg?
- I gained 30 kg exactly. - I gained 32 kg.
- Seriously? - Yes, and it made a giant headline, too.
Someone uploaded a photo of her looking that way.
They said I was a whale four months into my pregnancy.
Hee Sun, you made the same decision as Ji Yoon did?
We didn't have to tighten our bellies any more.
- I've always felt... - Stressed about my weight.
- I think I was so happy. - So happy.
We were.
We would become pregnant again just to eat like that again, you know?
I enjoyed it very much.
I am not afraid at all about speaking my mind in front of people but
I used to be very shy about talking to someone face to face.
- You can't imagine it now, right? - I can't.
When it was time to meet my friends or go somewhere with them
I had never talked with anyone on the phone.
I stayed home so much because I didn't like talking to my friends.
But when I gave birth, I somehow became shameless and social.
I went to every kind of gathering I could go to.
I went to a meeting to see my fellow graduates of postnatal care group.
I went to the regular meetings not only for my group but I
also went to the regular meetings for my friend Kim Sung Eun.
I attended the parents' meeting for my child's kindergarten.
I attended the meeting for toddlers' parents at our church.
I attended the meeting for my cooking class.
I attended the meeting for ballet dancers.
Attending every one of those meetings made me a busy person.
It healed me and informed me so much because I went to those meetings.
I belonged to their online groups as well.
After not checking out the group conversations for
several hours, I had 457 unread conversations.
And I make time to read them all.
I read them all to stay caught up and I work hard to leave replies as well.
I think the postnatal care group has the best sense of unity.
Why is that the case?
Babies are in the newborn nursery like this, right?
The last one born, just like the way it is in the military, is placed in the last place.
So... babies go home once they are big enough.
- Just like entering a training camp. - Yes and...
We show each others our breasts when we meet.
A postnatal care group has a strong sense of unity because...
We are celebrities, right?
We were without makeup and we showed our breasts.
So we need them to be on our side.
To keep the information confidential?
If we were to grow apart...
They could say, 'When Hee Sun was size 80 and without makeup,' so...
If we are friends, they'll say to others, 'She is a good person.'
Because I couldn't fit into the clothing they gave me.
I wore a robe that had flower patterns on it.
'I still remember your robe, Ji Yoon,' says my fellow graduates of postnatal care group.
If you are bigger than size 80, you can't find the robe that fits you.
Really?
Yoon Jeong, is something wrong?
'I will have someone visit me instead of going to a postnatal care group,' she is thinking.
No, it's because I have never heard anything about it before.
And I was getting too much information at once.
I don't like hearing the sound of squeaky squeaky but they are like...
Squeaky squeaky.
Once you become pregnant, I am sure you will call us.
Let's see how you are in three years.
- You'll hang onto our every word. - I am positive.
Moms are scary.
When your baby has moved up quite a bit
- it makes you feel so proud. - As if your baby went up in the rank?
Makes you feel so proud.
Because my baby moved up from the last place --
Moving up means it's time to leave the postnatal care center.
We stay there for two weeks.
Babies need to be breast-fed every three hours.
You have to wait for the phone call and go breast-feed your baby.
I couldn't wash my face or my hair.
Imagine meeting these people once every three hours for two weeks.
The sense of unity it creates is just...
I still clearly remember the breasts of the women in that group.
Because it's embarrassing to make eye contact with people that you don't know.
So, you look down instead which makes you look at their breasts.
I may not remember their faces, but I clearly remember their chests.
Oh, that woman is just...
They enrich your life.
I am not a full time mom but...
I have given birth and have gone through physical changes.
And I take care of my baby all day when I am not working.
There are times that I feel I am the only one who's struggling.
Is infant care supposed to be this difficult?
How come nobody, including my mom, told me this was so difficult?
It was way more difficult than I expected emotionally and physically.
I need to open my eyes the moment my baby wakes up.
No such thing as a nap time.
I have no control and I have to work around what my baby needs.
You may find yourself depressed because of that.
And the people who can empathize with you are the ones who gave birth around the same time.
When you talk to them, you realize, 'It's not just me who's having difficult time.'
'Even those who look so glamorous are also struggling.'
I was comforted by that.
What about the meeting for ballet dancers?
- You did ballet? - I do ballet stretches.
- Ballet? - Yes.
- You do? - Yes.
Ballet stretching?
Yes. Because I felt so stressed about my weight after I gave birth.
A group of my close friends suggested, 'Let's learn ballet. Let us take ballet lessons.'
We didn't learn the ballet dance moves but
we stretched so hard for an hour the way ballerinas do.
This is why I told you I upgraded my body.
I had a flawed bodyline before and I don't have a perfect bodyline either right now.
I never wore shorts before that.
Because I had to hide my legs.
But, when I was on a diet and did the stretches
I weigh the same but my legs looks so much prettier now.
So I wore shorts for the first time ever.
My legs were thicker than people who are slim.
I thought, 'Summer will be cool like this.'
It was the first time ever that I wore shorts.
A lot of people wore jeans and a white t-shirt.
I always wore long jeans no matter how hot it was, because I needed to hide my legs.
I thought, 'Summer could feel as cool as this?' I felt like I was reborn.
Was it the kind of confidence that allowed you to wear the same clothing that Jang Yoon Joo wore?
- She did? - Yes.
You shouldn't push it.
On that TV program, we were asked to copy someone's look.
She wore leather hosting Supermodel Challenge.
I thought, 'That looks good. I would like wear that.' I bought the same item online myself.
I wore the matching shirt and shoes for a TV show.
Shall we talk about Yoon Do Hyun's one-liner?
This is Do Hyun's one-liner.
Let's explain my thing.
He said if you do this you can prevent divorce.
What is that thing?
It's your thing?
Like Legendary Libido?
- Please explain to us. - What I meant by it is...
It's my hobby.
When a man gets into something, he really gets into it.
Oh, yes, yes.
I used to compete in speed skating.
And I love to exercise outdoors.
I went to a skateboard park for in-line skating.
Yes.
I was doing that with my friend.
My friend broke my in-line skates when he fell.
When he saw others skateboarding, he said, 'Do you want to try that?'
'Let's do that,' but I wasn't interested at all.
He bought me a skateboard.
And the moment I stood on it.
- This is it. - This is it.
- Did you get that feeling? - This is it.
It rarely happens.
Number one is music. Number two is skateboarding.
- You love it that much? - Yes.
- This is it. - Everyone asks where models belong.
I can go to a motel when I get tired from skateboarding.
As soon as I stood on it, I fell in love with it.
- You are a CEO now, right? - Yes.
Overseas, people are impressed when a CEO rides skateboard.
But in Korea, most CEOs play golf and stuff.
Yes, it's expected of them.
It's about perspective.
I think you get to be you by doing the things that you like.
A writer just sent us a message.
Were you on a skateboard when you came to the pre-interview?
It was such a good weather.
You rode your skateboard here?
I wanted to feel the street.
When you ride your skateboard...
It's more fun to ride your skateboard in the street than in a skateboard park.
Free styling.
When you do that, don't you have to navigate through a lot of obstacles?
In order to be able to do that, you practice at a skateboard park.
You can jump over curbs which is called an ollie.
- You can do that? - Of course I can.
He became so arrogant in that moment.
You know, his eyes were like.
He was like, 'Yeah...'
'Of course I can do that. What do you think?'
I felt like I need to talk to her about it.
I ride skateboard these days and have so much fun with it.
My wife doesn't know much about it, so she said, 'Have fun.'
She didn't even know whether it was dangerous or not.
I didn't know how to ride it. I cracked my rib after a few days of riding.
- Because you fell? - Yes.
When you do an extreme sports, you do get injured.
That's how it is.
You ride it because there is a risk involved.
When I cracked my rib...
My wife researched what skateboarding is.
'What is it all about?'
'Why is he so into it?'
She watched the video and all hell broke loose.
'This. You are doing this?' she asked me.
'This is what experts do and I am practicing to be able to do that,' I told her.
She said I should not and must not.
Because it's too dangerous.
She jokingly said that she will saw it in half because it's made out of wood.
After a long day, I went to a skateboard park when it was dark.
I fell so hard.
I... fell down so hard to the ground.
On your head?
You are in the air just before you touch the ground.
My skateboard flew away. I was skating on a ramp.
On my way up, the skateboard flew away and I fell down like this.
- In the middle of the night? - Yes, and there was nobody around me.
It hurt so much, so I just stayed down and look up in the sky.
The moon was in the sky.
Hurts so much. But at least the moon is so bright.
I came up with a senseless philosophy right there and then.
Lyrics?
'I am in so much pain but there is nobody to help me get up.'
I somehow had to walk myself home.
Right, right.
Oh crap.
I can rely only on myself when I am down.
I need to walk home alone.
Aren't you romanticizing it?
And it was such a big realization for me.
Everyone experiences something like that.
I wanted to explain it to my wife.
- How you felt? - How I felt.
So I explained to my wife what happened.
Of course, I couldn't explain it just as I experienced it.
But still...
I wanted her to know how much I loved it.
It's one of the most...
Skateboarding doesn't lie to you because you are as good as the effort you put in.
It's impossible to have your wife understand you 100 percent.
I think so, too.
No matter what you talk about.
Most men don't like to explain it to their wives.
You don't need to know is what they say.
- You wouldn't understand. - And they underestimate them.
Some men even get angry defending it.
'Leave me alone if you don't understand,' they say.
Because I wanted to do it so bad, I had to explain it to her.
So...
- That it's not so dangerous? - Because I wanted to show her that
I practiced and one day when I felt it was the time.
I took my kid and wife to a skateboard park.
- To show them? - Yes.
This is it. This is it.
I wanted to set her at ease and wanted to show off a little, as well.
This is how good I am.
After practicing for about six months, I took them to a skateboard park.
We laid a mat and we ordered jajangmyeons.
I pretended it was just an outing.
As if I was about to do a performance...
'Do you want to see me skateboard?' I told her.
I got on my skateboard and did the things I had been practicing.
I thought they would be so expressed.
'Wow!' like this.
She didn't even look.
I thought she saw me do a few moves, so I asked her
'How was it?'
And she replied, 'That's it?'
Because when she You Tubed it, she saw them jump high in the air.
Because she watched that...
I only knew how to get to the top of a small slope and turn.
But it's so much more difficult than you imagine.
It's such a different thing when you ride a skateboard.
I explained a lot about it.
It's this kind of sport and because I do this...
So, I got her permission. I am allowed to do it.
But she wanted to be safe.
If you want to do this, you have to give up other things.
- Such as? - For example
- I quit smoking. - Is there any connection?
I wanted to show her that because I skateboard I am not doing these things.
She would be even more supportive.
I'll do this. So let me just skateboard.
- Is it that good? - It's just an amazing sport.
I think wives need to know the entire process.
I think women need to know why their men are into their hobbies and how.
My dad just loves to go fishing.
I thought it was so strange because he always came back empty-handed.
'Are you supposed to catch five to six fish?' Most women think that.
And we don't expect the fish to be this small.
We think they catch it and cook it right there.
When I went, it was hard to catch even one.
I understood why he fished. I found that he loves the process of it, not catching the fish.
I understood that I could relate to him.
My uncle loved fishing, so he was never home.
That's when I realized...
'I shouldn't marry a man who has a hobby.'
I thought I should avoid men who love climbing, fishing and playing go.
So my husband's hobby is me.
It's a very unusual hobby.
Did you hire him by any chance?
The only thing he loves to do is to play with me.
Every trip he goes on, we go as a couple.
And he comes straight home when he's done working.
He said spending time with me is the most fun thing to do.
I think it would be.
It's so much fun just hanging out with me.
- What's your hobby, Gu Ra? - What I am really interested in is
talking about others.
Yes, when it comes to Gu Ra...
I like getting attention for talking about others.
I used to do it in the way that's low energy.
But now, I express my concern for others as well.
I think talking about others is the most fun thing to do.
When he talks about others, his eyes shine so bright.
What's Kyung Hwan's hobby?
I don't think he has one.
Every male announcer has the tendency to be devoted husbands.
I am so into making bowls.
Making bowls from mud.
- Like, like this? - Yes.
- It's so much fun. - Just like the scene from Ghost.
2013 version of Ghost?
I would like to do it with him but
he has to go to work every morning. When you sit, you sit for about six hours.
Really?
But it's so much fun.
People do all sorts of stuff.
Gu Ra, your hobby is the most unusual.
How about giving Yoon Jeong suggestions she can use?
Poet Park Noh Hae officiated our wedding.
Being married never means two of you become one.
Wow, that's a great insight.
- Two of you are strangers. - Right.
And he continued on.
Both of you should have secret rooms.
How is his family life?
He has a fantastic family life.
Both of you should have secret rooms.
When he said this, elderly guests were stirred up a little.
Not only that, Jeon In Kwon sang the wedding song.
He came to our wedding wearing everything black with huge hair.
He sang the song so loud.
But I liked it.
Having lived together for a while, I think we should be less demanding of each other.
I think it's impossible to be like one person, but...
it's a process to working on small things together to become like one person.
Celebrate when you form a bond of sympathy over small things.
I think that's what he meant.
I think it's good to think of you and your husband
as partners who have your own path to take.
- The officiant told me that. - It's a wise saying.
Yes.
Because you are somewhat more wealthy compared to your husband
take extra care when it comes to things like that.
So that he won't feel discouraged.
When other people are around, you could...
I think that's so important.
How their wives treat them in front of other people matters a lot.
You don't have to when it's just two of you but --
I think you should make an exchange rate for just two of you.
When Kyung Hwan pays 1,000 wons, Yoon Jeong, you pay 10,000 wons.
That's you can come up with something that works for both of you.
When he gives you 10,000 wons, you give him 100,000 wons back.
Don't you think it's a good idea?
I deal with something like that myself, right?
I make more money than him but
I think it might hurt his pride if you are too lenient about his income.
So, my husbands spends as much money as he wants and I use the rest for living expenses.
On his pay day, I ask him, 'You didn't get paid?
How come there isn't any money.' I say it in a cute way.
Then, he replies, 'Okay, since it's my pay day,
I'll give you some money,' in a cheerful tone.
It might be easier to buy something for myself using my own money but
When I buy something, I send him a photo for proof.
'Sweetie, thank you for the gift you bought for our anniversary.'
Even if I use my own card, I send him a photo of proof and thank him.
'Can I get my gift early?' asking in a charming way.
- I think it's important. - I do think it's a wise way to handle it.
Do they resonate with you?
I think I need to start with making him feel confident about himself.
I hate when they put my name first before his.
I ask people to say Do Kyung Hwan and Jang Yoon Jeong.
Even when I reserve a table a pub
'Kyung Hwan will call you,' I call them before hand.
When Kyung Hwan says, 'It's Do Kyung Hwan,' then they go
'Ah, you are coming here with Yoon Jeong?' That's what I want.
How about combining your names like 'Do Jang Yoon Kyung?'
Because Jang Dong Gun and Ko So Young are called 'Jang Ko' couple.
You can call them 'Do Jang' couple.
Hee Sun, offer her a suggestion.
How much longer will you keep objecting other people's marriages?
Mean
You should wish them well.
Do Kyung Hwan and Jang Yoon Jeong wishing you a long lasting happy marriage
I will tell you Hyo Ri's one-liner.
I feel very touched by it.
Hyo Ri's one-liner.
Let's get psychological examinations just as we get physical examinations.
- It totally -- - Resonates.
This means you already did a psychological checkup.
You asked me why did I change three years ago.
I've changed a lot after I got a psychological checkup.
What made you do it?
When I was accused of plagiarizing other people's songs
I was afraid that I would lose my fan base.
I felt so dejected because someone sold me plagiarized songs.
I drank everyday and
Jae Dong told me about it.
He needs one, too.
- He has. - Really?
I already did
I always tell him, 'Get it done rather than looking depressed all the time.'
He told me it's so beneficial, having done it himself.
'Hyo Ri, it seems you are going through a hard time. Why don't you do a checkup?'
I went there without expecting much.
People talk about getting a physical examination done every six or twelve months , right?
But most people ignore and disregard psychological health, right?
That's when I realized it's so important to get it done.
Especially for celebrities or people who perform publicly.
I think it's important for us to take care of our psychological health.
What did you get a prescription or get counseling?
It's the same way.
Just like a physical examination, it examines you from multiple angles.
You fill in a questionnaire.
They also have you stay in a room, that has
surveillance cameras, to observe how you behave.
They show you an ink blot and asks you, 'What images come up?'
I would like to get a psychological counseling but
while the doctors may be medical professionals, they are still humans. Right?
When I talk about myself, even though I don't want to, for my psychological health
it makes me think how will they think of me.
I think I probably will focus talking about good things in my life.
No, you shouldn't. You need to talk about whatever is in your mind.
What I did wasn't counseling, it was a psychological checkup.
I didn't have to say anything about myself.
I filled in a questionnaire they gave me.
There was this question, for example
I am an important person.
I sometimes enjoy getting hurt by someone I love.
There several hundred of questions like this.
Because I would like to be a good person since I'm a celebrity
I say yes even if it's really no, right?
But they know.
They know how you want to project...
They can use the data even if you lie.
It's very interesting.
Please ask us another question.
I sometimes think about doing something bad that I can't even talk to others about.
Okay, let's have every one of us say yes or no to them.
- Yes or no? - I have.
- Sandara. - I have.
- Everyone has.
- I have, too. - You have.
We have and
There are really bad people who think extremely bad thoughts.
The standard for what is a 'bad thought' is different for everyone.
The people who are born bad.
I often have sexual dreams.
- Lee Joon, you certainly have. - [Surprised]
You won this one.
When you dream stuff like that, you dream it because you can't in real life?
I don't know. How they analyze the data is on another level from how we think.
Why did I?
Talking about Lee Joon, I often ask a lot of questions about dreams.
I heard that the desires you have that are not
satisfied often become the content of your dreams.
There are times when you dream something like that when you can't think about it at all.
I wasn't interested in this girl at all but --
She wasn't my type of girl, either.
I was making love with that girl in my dream.
She was a celebrity. I didn't like it at all.
- Lee Young Ja? - No, no, it wasn't Lee Young Ja.
She was a singer.
Lee Soh Ra the singer?
She does so much of that.
She's so random and senseless.
She needs to check herself in for sure.
Does it make any sense?
- What do you mean Lee Soh Ra the singer? - Why Lee Soh Ra the singer?
She always talk about something beyond what you are thinking about.
- I am good friends with Soh Ra... - Good to bring up Lee Soh Ra the singer.
I didn't mean Lee Soh Ra the singer.
- That's what I mean. - Please stop this!
I don't think you fit well with Lee Soh Ra the singer.
I am sorry, Soh Ra.
- Another question? - Question?
I have to work hard hide that I feel shy.
Sometimes I slander others or engage in meaningless gossip.
Everybody does that.
Not sometimes, Gu Ra does that everyday.
- Feels weird when he doesn't. - I come across quite a few of them.
There are several hundred of these questions.
I used to have this thing.
When I meet the directors of broadcasting companies or advertisers
people that I consider to be in higher position than I am
or those who can boss me around
I got really rebellious, for no reason.
- So I -- - Right, right.
When the director wants to come and greet me.
Let him come greet me. Like this.
When you were a rookie?
I didn't say it out loud.
Yeah, how do you say it out loud when you are a rookie.
Even when I was heading to his office --
You have to be insane to say it out loud.
On my way, I thought, 'Why do I have to go greet him?'
Aren't we partners who work together?
The advertisers usually sit like this in the studio when we film commercials.
'Hey, tell her to wear something shorter,' someone said.
Even if I wanted to...
'I don't want to. Why do I have to do as you say?' I was like this.
You could say that I was being spoiled and rotten in some sense.
But I didn't know why I was like that.
- I found out why when I got the test done. - Really?
'Miss Lee Hyo Ri, you have a hard time being submissive to authority figures, right?'
'You are somewhat rebellious, right?' he asked me.
- They are the real psychics. - Yes, yes.
When you go there, most people react like that.
As if talking to a psychic, 'Oh my, how did you know?'
I replied, 'Yes, how did you know?
He said it's in the data.
Because I grew up under a very strict father.
Because I couldn't say what I wanted to say or do what I wanted to do
I became rebellious since I was young.
Especially with men.
He said it's in the data.
She talked about this several times on air.
When she caused trouble...
I'm sure it's his way of parenting.
Her dad had her eat hot pepper paste.
Having me eat hot pepper paste was a cute punishment.
There was an awful punishment.
I've been afraid of Dad since I was young.
When you're young, your dad is such a significant person, right?
So, I become rebellious against anyone who might be able to boss me around.
Even with the public.
Because celebrities need public interest.
When I become less popular and when the public disliked
me, that meant the public was bossing me around
I developed social phobia and avoided people because of that, he said.
They didn't give me a prescription or anything but
The moment I recognizes it, I said, 'Oh, that's why I do that.'
When I start to get that way the next time I think
'I am doing that again. Let's not do that.'
Nothing wrong with greeting the director since we are working together.
Because I control myself this way, I feel very much at ease.
Someone tells you about yourself from a very objective perspective?
Right.
They explained the results to me.
How was the results?
That I was feeling depressed and stressed out.
I went there because I thought I was suffering from depression.
The first things the doctor told me was...
There are different levels of fitness, right?
Same is true for your mental fitness.
My mental fitness is of the highest level.
He told me not to even worry about being depressed.
He told me I was born with a strong mentality and mind power in the first place.
When I heard that, I felt a little embarrassed because I went there because I felt depressed.
That's all I needed to hear to feel confident again.
I had a sense of certainty that no matter what happens to me I am going to be okay.
Is it expensive?
They charge different rates, but the one that I went to was a little pricey.
Only on your first visit.
Do you want to go get one done?
I did something like that before.
It was for my marriage.
My wife and I were fighting over something that wasn't important.
'Hey, let's not do this. Let's tell our stories
to a third party,' we would say. So we went.
They charged about 100,000 wons for an hour.
I went there one day and she went there next day. We did this about five times.
- We were so much better after that. - Of course.
My wife just won't listen to what I said to her but
she listened to doctor saying the same thing to her.
Right, right.
This is what the doctor said.
'Your family is in a very unique situation because...'
I used to be an unknown internet radio show DJ.
My son and I became so famous after ten years of that.
My family was knowingly and unknowingly feeling confused because of that.
I said, 'I am doing all this work. You should give me some respect.' But my wife said
'You became successful because you met me.'
We were fighting because of that.
So we said we should get help to help our marriage.
Coincidentally, the name of the doctor we talked to
was Kim Dong Hyun, which is the name of our son.
We found him by accident.
It has a huge impact on your life.
So, after getting the test done, did you stop drinking. I mean stop eating meat?
After getting it done, this is what I felt.
I realized that I am a much better of a person than I give myself credit for.
The test results said
I am born with a strong sense of compassion and respect toward people.
That I love animals and value living beings.
Was the doctor a big fan of yours by any chance?
I had a lot of flaws, as well, but...
That could be the case.
I have many flaws, as well, but...
When I heard him say that, I said this to him.
'Doctor, I am much better a person than I gave myself credit for,' I told him.
I think that's when I reconciled with myself.
- You started to love yourself? - I started to love myself.
Should I say self-respect?
I felt touched when I heard you said you reconciled with yourself.
I used to be too busy because of work and everything.
Even when I won the first place and the grand prize.
'Is this all you can do? You can do better than this,' is what I told myself.
I remembered only bad things people said about me.
I didn't accept the praise people offered me.
Because all I thought about was I should do better and work harder.
I started to dislike and avoid myself.
But after getting the test done, I worked harder to understand and befriend myself.
That's when I started to stay away from what's bad for my body.
I also have received psychological counseling.
- Really? - Yes, yes.
- After Legendary Libido bombed? - Yes, I did.
I go get counseling whenever I am struggling.
- That's good. - Because I get to talk it out.
I love it because it's hard to say to people why I am struggling.
I don't say that to my family or friends because they might get worried.
I like that I can just talk about the most pressing issues I am going through.
Hyo Ri mentioned it and I remember my doctor saying this to me.
In our country, humility is a basic requirement.
Because we are always humble, it sometimes become self-reproach.
That everything is my fault.
When the doctor said I don't have to do that to myself, it helped me immensely.
Lee Joon, you went through a hard time last year
because of what happened on We Got Married.
- We are bringing them all out. - Why don't you talk about it?
I was on a TV show called We Got Married.
I had to get off the show because of the rumors of my partner's romance with someone.
This is what I didn't understand about it.
- You were not really married to her, right? - No.
- Why did you have to quit? - It was like this for us.
It was imaginary, but like real lovers.
They wanted the viewers to feel that it might really be real, right?
That's what they wanted and when the rumors broke out, she was heavily criticized.
People criticized her for not taking her role on the TV show as the real thing.
This is what I want to say about that.
I think she and I are both victims in the situation.
She didn't do anything wrong.
It's not important whether she was going out with someone or not, right?
It became so much worse because they photographed her and him together.
Even now, when someone asks me about what happened
and when I try to explain the situation, she always gets criticized.
I feel very hurt because she is my colleague.
That's how I felt.
I would like people to stop that because it isn't her fault.
I don't think it's anybody's fault.
Are you saying that you wanted to go out with
her in real life when you were on that TV show?
Joon, is that what you meant?
- Lee Joon is very passionate about it. - It could be very safe route to take.
If you go out with that person for real, you could say it's just for the TV show.
We weren't going out in real life.
Were you in distress because of what happened?
Yes, because I thought what happened wasn't her fault.
She was criticized so much and people treated me like a poor wretch.
Things became weird for both of us.
But I am sure you had a girlfriend at that time.
What? No, I was too busy at the time.
There is a way around it. I didn't use this with her but
you almost come across someone you don't like wherever you go.
There is a way to be on good terms with someone like that.
How?
- Let's say I just don't like you, Dong Yup. - Yes, yes, yes.
Then, I go home and I curse all sorts of obscenities at you under my blanket.
At the person you dislike?
Yes, I say, 'You die!'
- You curse at them. - I curse at them.
And you will run into that person next day, right?
When the person greets you, you feel guilty for some reason.
How much must you curse at them to feel that way after hating them the night before?
That's how I start to open my heart to them and they open theirs in return.
After this goes on air, when someone notices Lee Joon being uncomfortable and courteous...
They will think, 'Did this guy curse at me last night?'
When I heard Lee Joon talk, for me, being able
to dislike someone is living out of my means.
Because for ten years, I've been like this...
I spent my whole life saying, 'I am sorry.'
I always do that so I think that way.
This is the first time you met Hee Sun, right?
I would like to talk bluntly the way she does.
You should. You should.
Just say what you heard about someone.
I've never gotten angry in my life.
I imagine myself screaming and yelling a lot.
I would like to yell right now.
But I've never done it before.
But if you pile it up --
- Why repress so much? - Isn't it stressful?
So, I went to get a checkup.
You did?
I did because I have a fear of flying.
- I was diagnosed with repressed anger. - Repressed anger?
- And model student complex. - Yes, model student complex.
- You want to be always seen as a good person? - Yes.
- Do you get really scared when you go on an airplane? - She gets very nervous.
She couldn't stay still for a two hour flight to Japan.
She needed to sit on the seat for the flight attendants.
How come? Is it more comfortable?
- A flight attendant held her hand. - She held my hand and
The flight attendants asked me, 'Do you want jjapaghetti?'
Oh, really?
They looked after me.
There are times when our fans are on the same flight that we are on.
That's when I feel so embarrassed about it.
If you are afraid of flying, you should get there on a ship.
What kind of senseless ad-lib is that?
I am just saying it.
I notice that the musicians these days are so busy.
You might get off track because of that, so you should take
time to go on trips, read books, watch movies and have fun.
The presidents and the managers of talent agencies hate me because I say things like this.
They don't want their musicians to hang out with you?
Because they need to keep busy.
Because I keep telling them to rest and have fun.
Who among the older musicians told our Hyo Ri to do that?
Did you hear that? Did you?
He said, 'Our Hyo Ri.'
'Our Hyo Ri?!'
- Anybody? - Everyone told me to work hard.
Everybody told me that I need to work hard in order to succeed.
Nobody told me that it's okay to take a break and take care of myself.
Didn't Cho Young Nam tell you to go on dates?
- Cho Young Nam. - I've never met Cho Young Nam before.
That's what Young Nam says all the time.
And the doctor gave you a comprehensive analysis.
After giving me a comprehensive analysis of my condition, he told me at the end that
I didn't have anyone to rely on.
That I needed to support my family.
That I had to lead my agency as well.
Even among my friends, I was the strong one.
I didn't have anyone who understood me.
And that will probably continue to be because I am born with those traits.
He said everyone needs at least one person to lean on, someone you can lean on
whether it's your parents, spouse or friend.
If you don't have someone like that, you should be someone like that for yourself.
You should always be there for yourself.
If you used to turned your back on yourself and dislike yourself...
Hyo Ri, from now on be the only person you can lean for yourself.
Then I would be able live more comfortable and happy life.
Yes...
After that, I went on trips by myself rather than taking my manager or friends with me.
I went to Japan by myself as well.
I hiked along the ridges of Mt. Jiri.
I had many conversations with myself.
I discovered more about myself.
I felt compassion for myself.
I talked to myself and said, 'You've worked hard. It's been difficult for you, right?'
'I'll be more kind to you,' I promised.
I began to eat only healthy food.
I began to take better care of my body.
That's how I began to change rapidly.
I became more peaceful as well.
Let's get psychological examinations just as we get physical examinations.
It was great to hear Hyo Ri's one-liner.
- This is Sandara's one-liner. - For 2NE1.
Wherever we went...
things didn't go smoothly. We went through a lot of incidents and accidents.
What I am about to say isn't something to laugh about.
- It's a very sad story. - Sure, sure.
What is it about?
Let's get twisted before we die.
Let's get twisted before I die.
There was a hug earthquake in Japan two years ago, right?
I went through an earthquake of 9.0 magnitude by myself.
Were things shaking?
You won't know if you haven't been through it.
There was this door.
It moved like this all by itself.
- Like a car wiper? - Yes.
I was so scared.
I usually can endure it when I feel scared or pain.
I wanted to live, so I crawled out of my room and shouted, 'Help me!'
There was no one on my floor.
The walls were cracking.
- It was on the news. - Yes.
I could see the walls cracking.
When you look out through the window
- the building moved like this. - Everything was.
The news footage
I can't even imagine.
The phones weren't working.
When I checked the hotel's phone, it was working.
I couldn't think of anything and I just dialed it.
Fortunately, CL picked up the phone.
She answered it calmly.
'Where are you? Can I be where you are?' I asked her.
'Dara, you stay put. Don't get on an elevator. I'm coming. Sit down and stay put.'
- I trusted her. - A guardian.
I held on and she came to rescue me.
- As the building was shaking, we -- - Used the stairs.
Isn't it dangerous to do that during an earthquake?
They tell you not to get on an elevator.
How about the stairs?
- Did you walk all the way up, CL? - Yes.
- By yourself? - I went with one of our staff.
She is Wonder Woman.
I thought, 'This is how I will die.'
I can really relate to it because
I felt that love for my family..
My family and I went to Saipan.
- I experienced an earthquake of 7.5 magnitude. - Really?
- There were fatalities. - I see.
When people are in the middle of something like that
everybody runs for the exit.
It creates a crazy situation where people roll down the stairs.
Someone finding her friend in an earthquake of 9.0 magnitude is impossible.
It's never easy to do that.
CL, how could you stay calm in the midst of that?
'Dara, stay put.' How could you...
Just like a dispatcher, 'Don't sit. Wait inside.'
'Don't use an elevator.'
If I am going to die, then I am going to die.
I thought it's only right to die together.
You wanted to die trying to do something good.
Rather than that...
- Doing your duties until you die. - I wanted to do my duties.
That's what I believe.
What were you thinking, Dara?
On our way down
my whole life flashed before me.
'Is this how I die?' I thought.
When I looked at my band members, they were praying together with other foreign guests.
We went down the stairs and the lobby
was full of people just like in a disaster movie.
Aftershocks continued throughout the night
We couldn't get back to our rooms.
Everyone slept in the lobby like homeless people.
We couldn't buy any food at all.
- They were all gone. - It makes sense.
Around daybreak, we went back to my room.
I was with CL in my room.
There were two beds and we sat up on our beds.
She wanted to go to sleep.
CL wanted to sleep in the middle of all that.
She, she wanted to sleep.
But I couldn't get myself to sleep.
I took a strap from a bathrobe.
I tied it to CL's wrist.
I tied it and said, 'Wake up when I pull it, because the building will be shaking.'
Just like a movie.
She calmly replied, 'Sure, Dara, you can tie me.'
She went to bed after that and I think I pulled it several times.
- You pulled it? - Yes.
- You woke up when she did, CL? - I did.
We poured water into a glass cup.
She kept looking at it and, whenever it shook a little, she woke me up.
Because of the experience, whenever I came across a
water bottle, for a year, I looked at it closely.
That's understandable.
And at the time
I had nightmares for a week when I returned to Korea.
I came back home without anything happening to me.
That's what I thought but I had those nightmares.
That's why you need to get counseling. Seriously.
I had this fascinating experience. It was our debut performance in Japan.
That's when you wanted to get into Japanese market.
The night before the flight, I just did not want to go.
I told the band members, 'I don't want to go.'
I told the agency, 'I don't have a good feeling about this.'
She is a little bit of psychic.
CL, will I be successful this year?
I wanted to ask her that.
I want to ask her that, too.
I feel pretty apprehensive, you know?
Before I debuted, I was in a fire accident.
I was unconscious for two days.
Elderly people were suffocating to death.
It was a very big fire.
I was in the basement.
Suddenly the lights went out.
Then I heard an explosion from the first floor.
But you can't see anything, right?
And you would think you would be alarmed and exit the building, right?
- No. - What's happening?
Yeah, that's what seems to happen.
Someone screamed, 'We have to call 911!'
And then a fire started after another explosion.
When there is fire over there, you can't even move one meter closer because it's too hot.
But the only exit of the building was on fire.
Smoke and toxic gas surrounded me.
I thought, 'This is how I die.'
But there is nothing you can do. Just like Sandara said, there was nothing I could do.
And I lost my consciousness.
I woke up two days after at a hospital.
Having gone through that, I became fearful of smoke.
Even when I saw steams coming out of a humidifier, I became startled.
- Because you are traumatized by it. - That's why.
It maybe different for everyone, but you could go through something like that.
You decide at that time...
'I'll get twisted because I don't know when I might die.'
I've never done anything that people told me not to do.
I didn't do what Mr. Yang told me not to do.
Can you give us an example?
I would like to disappear from everyone's radar.
If you want to go somewhere, you go after saying, 'Mr. Yang, I am going on a trip.'
But Dara thinks that she might be a burden on others if she does that.
What burden?
Nothing wrong with disappearing from everyone's radar.
- Number two? - Screaming and cursing at the same time.
Try it. Get angry.
Not cursing but...
Hyo Ri! Why did you ignore my text?
- I have practiced a curse word. - Try, try it.
My acting teacher is Kang Hae Jeong.
Do it. Dara, curse at the wall.
- Hae Jeong knows how to curse. - Hae Jeong does know how to do it.
- When she was on our show... - Oh, true.
- Let's see. - I haven't been practicing.
She laughed when I did it.
What the #$%& are you looking at?
Oh!
Oh My Gosh
Sandara is as bad as CL?
- You have been practicing it. - That was good.
- You had the emotion behind it. - Yes, she did.
Did you see how she posed for it like this?
I think you might need to get special lessons from Gu Ra.
Private lessons.
She might not be ready to learn from a maestro like me.
Maestro in swearing?
I think you can use that in many situations.
- I can feel the fire. - You can.
Along with her posture.
- Let's see how Hyo Ri does it. - What? Swearing at him?
Yeah, check out the way she's looking at me.
I am into it.
She has that look in her eyes.
Full of expectation
Hyo Ri, you did well today.
Mind your own business.
Who the hell are you to judge me?
Lee Hyo Ri is Kim Gu Ra's natural enemy?
It feel so refreshed!
Don't you feel good?
I feel good, too.
Sandara, screaming and swearing is your second one?
- The third one. - The last one. This one is important.
I would like to fall deep in love.
- You're 30 years old now. - She's 30?
The ultimate baby face, Sandara
You are old enough to start dating.
Hyo Ri, you've done all three of those, right?
- You've disappeared from the radar, right? - Yes.
- You screamed and cursed before, right? - Many times.
Doing these things doesn't mean you are twisted. Everyone does it.
It's healthy for you do to them.
- Otherwise, they start to pile up. - You end up with repressed anger.
You've been in deep love.
She's in one, right now.
Hyo Ri, anything new you want to do?
I would like to...
date younger guys.
We know you're kidding
Anyway...
- It's just a fantasy, anyway. - Since it's cheating, you might as well...
What if he feels upset about it?
You feel bad, sweetie?
Next week on Hwasin
Ahn Moon Suk, Seo In Young, Lim Soo Hyang, Choi Won Young!
Why only for 19 and over?
Slipping it in a little of it.
Why else would they exchange it unless they were married?
Of course I pay attention to it.
In Young, you are wearing those heels. She did that.
I felt weird, too.
I couldn't go on TV shows.
Sexy killer.
Four ways to practice looking innocent and sexy.
Wear a sleeveless shirt. You leave it like that.
One, two and three.
If it doesn't go down, you do this?
You look so pale.
I have my game plan.
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